Re: Coach, not bully because...

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Posted by daddyo on January 31, 2018 at 20:19:13:

In Reply to: Re: Coach, not bully because... posted by Bully Coaches! on January 31, 2018 at 16:57:42:

: : : : : : : : : : : Too many coaches going too far. One thing to push these young ladies to be physically and mentally tough but too degrade, be little and down right bully is a problem. Why donít some of theses schools hold the same standards for the coaches as they do the fans and players. Poor kids canít fight back and if parents step in coaches hold it against the players.

Guarantee the coach above probably pulls the same c--- in practice.
: : : : : : : : : : I feel coach bashing coming soon by a parent should I dare to ask whatís up.

: : : : : : : : : : No bashing just facts. What is crossing the line?? We suspend kids for cyber bullying and give time out to little kids calling other names but coaches yelling in faces of young girls threatening them, saying personal things to damage self esteem what kind of stuff is that? Not to mention a coach thatís part of the faculty. Iím all for pushing kids , benching, and yelling if need be. But because your a washed up player thatís unhappy because your program is bad donít take it out on kids that canít protect themselves. If they dare say something to anyone they may be cut or further humiliated

: : : : : : : : : Was a little bashing in there I admit

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: : : : : : : : do you feel better some coaches when they yell to the players they feel better as well. I have not meet a coach that did not have an ego I wish they used those ego's in their personal life but they seem to check that out outside the court.

: : : : : : : I was expecting names.

: : : : : : : I have seen some coaches get wild and get in players faces but when your picking on defenseless kids thatís bad. Yellimg to feel better is fine but choose your words. Run the kids pull them out of a game but do t take your miserable life out on kids. This coach is a coward and should not be allowed to work At a school

: : : : : I have seen Coaches sit, not yell and never raise their voice and then fans complain they're not really a Coach, then I've seen Coaches do the exact opposite and then they're declared a bully. You really can't win as a Coach, there's always going to be those hating on you no matter what you do.

: : : : We some weak Ass parents nowadays tell all your kids boys and girls a "Yes Coach" means a whole lot of things my kidsget yelled at and I ask my kids deep down were they wrong 99% of the time. Some coaches do trip but teach the kids to bark a "YES COACH" they will not get rode.

: : : If you have to yell and scream at players as a coach you are not getting through. Change your methods. You can help make a player tougher for life skills with methods of respect and sportsmanship. We have players who listen and do their best because we respect them and most importantly LISTEN to them. Every day we have 5 minutes at practice where while stretching we simply ask three questions and then get quiet. These young people are amazing and smart if you let them talk and learn to speak up appropriately.
: : : Our teams are respected for how we respect others including players, coaches, referees, fans and school staff.
: : : Earlier this season we had to play a very good team that was way better than us. What bad experience as their fans were taunting us (we couldn't find an admin for their school because when we got there we had to search for restrooms for example). Their coach said two words to us the whole time...good game after beating us plus 40 points pressuring whole game. Very sad that there was a family with probably elementary school children sitting there watching them pressure and steal and lay ball up even with 40 point lead. They saw that bulling is acceptable. Hopefully their parents told them it was wrong.
: : : We had a game we could have won by 40 plus and we won by 20...starters get more rest, reserves get more playing time. We go with respect and sportsmanship. If you like to play us get in line as we always have a full schedule because of the way we respect people. We are no heroes, simply playing the game and conducting our selves the way ALL teams should. Good luck the rest of the season.

: : At a lower level game this season a prominent program program was up by 25 points at one point in the 4th quarter, played only 7 players out of 16 on the roster, was complaining about officiating despite the scoreboard, and never called off it's press. Would you want your kid to play for that program?

: I canít believe how many coaches are coaching girls high school basketball and think itís ok to get in players faces. These are grown ass men getting in young girls faces and treating girls like crap. Favoring certain players especially the good players. When I got an opportunity to coach High School Girls Basketball as an assistant I saw it first hand. Coach was being such a bully to the girls. He knew basketball but he did not know how to respect the players. He was horrible. I got two girls to transfer in to play for us and there was no way I was going to let him treat the team like crap. I donít care if you kick them out the gym, sit them down and donít play them but you will not call them stupid names or degrade them while I was at the school.getting in their faces. If youíre ok with coaches calling your kid Stupid idiot, brainless, pathetic or whatever he wants then youíre a horrible parent.
: Itís not about playing time nowadays! Coaches are so pety the parents confront them and they take it out on the players. Iíve seen coaches threaten to throw the ball at players or even take them outside to show them what theyíre about. I will say this and have done this. If Iím in the gym and I witness a coach threatening a player physically I make it clear to the coach that itís not gonna happen when Iím around. Fricken grown ass men getting in high school girls faces like theyíre tough. Fricken cowards. Girls will play hard for you if they respect you cause they give a shit.
: Itís ok to yell at them and push them and challenge them but there is a line that will not be crossed when Iím in the gym.
: Itís not about sportsmanship or running up the score. I donít care about sportsmanship itís about respecting the girls.

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